Can you remember the last time you did something just because you wanted to?

Not because you were good at it.
Not because it was sensible.
Not because you knew how it would turn out.

You did it because it felt exciting.
Because it was fun.
Because something inside you said yes.

For many of us, the last time we lived like that was childhood — before doubt crept in. Before we were taught to play it safe. Before we were told that only “special” people were allowed to shine.

Let me be very clear:

That story is a lie.

And anyone — anything — that made you believe otherwise can quite frankly go brush their teeth, because you’re done swallowing nonsense that shrinks you.

You Were Made for More (Yes, You)

I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it:

Every single one of us has a purpose.

There is something you have been put on this earth to do — and the clues live in your dreams. The things you long to do but talk yourself out of. The ideas that keep returning, no matter how many times you ignore them.

Doubt doesn’t mean you’re not capable.
Fear doesn’t mean you’re not ready.

It means it matters.

You are more than good enough.
In fact — you were made for it.

Your Dreams Are Yours for a Reason

Not everyone wants what you want.

We don’t all have the same dreams — and even when they look similar, no one can live them in the exact way you are meant to.

Your uniqueness is not a flaw to be corrected.
It’s the key to your purpose.

So stop filtering your desires through other people’s expectations.

Strip back the “shoulds”.
Let go of what you’ve been told is sensible.
Go inward.

Ask yourself honestly:

• What do I want?

• What lights me up?

• What does my heart keep pulling me toward?

Trust your intuition. It already knows.

You Can’t Realise Your Potential Without Listening to Yourself

You cannot become who you are meant to be while ignoring what you feel.

Your values.
Your desires.
Your instincts.

When you silence them, you stall your growth.

Only when you listen — truly listen — can you begin stepping into your full potential.

A Visualisation to Help You Find Your Next Step

If you’re feeling stuck or unsure, I want to share a visualisation that has helped me — and my daughter — find clarity during moments of uncertainty.

Take a breath and imagine this:

You’re standing in a beautiful, expansive lobby.
Marble floors. Tall pillars. Gilded details.

In front of you is a grand staircase.
At the top, two large, ornate doors.

You climb the staircase slowly — one step at a time.

At the top, the doors open.

Inside is a room full of people. As you enter, they stand and applaud.

Some faces you recognise. Some you don’t.
But all of them recognise you.

You walk toward a podium.

Ask yourself:

• What are they celebrating you for?

• What have you achieved?

• Why are you being honoured?

Go with the first answer that comes. Don’t overthink it.

Now rewind.

Walk back through the room.
Back down the staircase.
And as you do, notice the steps you took to get there.

What was the first step?
The second?
The third?

You may only see one step right now — and that’s enough.

You don’t need the whole staircase.

You just need your next step.

Your Potential Isn’t Gone — It’s Waiting

Some of you will have more doubt to clear than others.
Some of you are already doing the work.

Wherever you are — don’t stop.

You already hold the answer.

This is your life.
Your calling.
Your purpose.

Stop giving your power away.
Stop letting fear decide for you.
Stop believing you weren’t meant to shine.

You were.

And it’s time.

With belief in you always,
Elisa xx

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